Standing Up For My Girls! If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything…


Many years ago, I made an appointment to have my hair styled, not just an ordinary style rather something artsy and creative.  I had finally found someone who could create the perfect style of braids for me and at the right price.  I had settled in, made myself comfortable and began to enjoy good conversation… The stylist shared life stories and I shared life stories as well.  We talked a great deal about her transition to the United States.  At times she would emphasize the differences in socio-economics, customs and culture, which I found interesting.  At times she would take a “dig” at Cosmetologist, saying that they were not the best here in our country.  Casually, I shared that two of my sisters ethical licensed cosmetologists.  This lady continued to say unpleasant things about Cosmetologist such as, they over-charge, they give you poor service, etc.  Gently, I said to her again, “My sisters are licensed cosmetologist.”  By now she seemed to have been on a “roll”.  She said, “All they do is lie to you, take your money and make your hair fall out.”  Sooooo…. I had already been praying, “Lord I really want to get my hair style completed and not leave here with half a head of braids, so I need you to turn this situation around.”  I turned and said to the lady, “There are unethical people in every profession all over the world. We can’t throw a jacket over the entire profession due to a few unfortunate incidents.”  In a cool and calm voice and with love, I said, “My sisters are in this profession and they are women of a higher standard.”   Sooooo…. the stylist backed off, apologized and returned to pleasant conversation and I was able to have my service completed in peace and liberty:)

There’s a time to pray, There’s a time to take a stand…. There is a time to speak up, There is a time to pray again…

Phil. 4:6 – Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.



2 thoughts on “Standing Up For My Girls! If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything…

  1. Hey girlfriend!
    Good morning and God Bless.
    Just wanted to say enjoyed your inspiring messages and nice pic of you and your sissies. Love & miss you.
    You other sissy,


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