“Well meaning” parents and “well meaning” friends yearn to tell their children, their friends, about themselves (in love) when they fall short and in need of correction… When you do this, please note… We must, without fail speak it in love and without strife. Truth is an admirable thing, love is an admirable thing; we must be careful to dispense truth together with love.
Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. I Peter 4:8